love

Love is a feeling that has no fixed shape or definition its transcendental but nowadays, it’s definition has changed.It has become more like a 3D object . Where we apply our own conditions and perceive  it  with a very limited view like if u like someone or something we will not accept it the way it is. We always try to alter and make it our way and every day we spend enormous amount of energy on it . Really is this what we should be doing ? This question always make me feel how inappropriate i am about my views on love. Love is a power to feel free in your expressions.Its  beyond reasoning of being right or wrong , fair or unfair. When you start questioning about someone or something you love  then be sure its not love it’s a business or a trade. So , feel free and dare to love 🙂

Freedom

“Expose your self to your deepest fear after that , fear has no power and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. Your free.”

By Jim Morrison

Life

“There are three constants in life change,choice and principles .”

by Stephen covey

Decision Making

  When stuck between two options, just flip a coin in the air! It works. Not because it solves the problem.but because while the coin is in the air, you will get to know what your heart is really hoping for. Does this trick really helps in making decision? life is about making choices correct or uncorrect.When we have more than one option it leaves us in ambiguous situation which actually decreases the inner peace and happiness.How to deal with that ? our life solely depends  on the decisions we take , its like a we are free to draw anything that we want out of various colours and shape,relate this to the real world as if colours and shape are the choices we have in life.In the process of making choices one should go for the fact and figures rather than people’s opinions because every one has their own view, conditions and above all abilities.Some time decision are made on gut feeling, because the conditions never remains still or stable.If you end up in making wrong decision through your gut feeling stilled, you will be confident and take up this failure as an experience .We should always be flexible when taking any decision as it is said “Stay committed to your decisions, but stay flexible in your approach”.Tony Robbins.Avoid emotions like anger, fear , lack of attentiveness and  ignorance while making decision, but embrace emotions like freedom, confidence and willingness to achieve desired  height.At the end remember Its your life and it should be driven by your own rules and decisions.

Imagination

The level of our success is limited only by our imagination and no act of kindness, however small, is ever wasted.

                                 By (Aesop)

Experience

I believe the process of going from confusion to understanding is a precious, even emotional, experience that can be the foundation of self-confidence.

Brian Greene

To Forgive

It is manlike to punish, but godlike to forgive.By (peter Von Winter)

Many of us went through a situations which resulted in to a pain , anxiety ,sorrow by our loved or the most trusted one with deliberate action or nondeliberate action.Why is it hard to forgive ? reason we justify ourselves easily is that we are humans , and we can’t be god like.What make so rigid that we can’t forgive? its the anger which trigger us to take revenges  or punishes other in order to be internally satisfied and to regain control on the feeling of injustice that the one went through.forgiving is the hardest thing to do , but not impossible through little effort.One should bear in mind that taking revenge  is a total waste of time and energy, its like drinking the poison and expect the enemy to be killed. However it a compromise of your well being if you go on with such negative  emotions.We should not forget that best revenge is to remain happy and peaceful by forgiving the enemy one should repay evil with kindness.Its secret for living happier and longer.